Comments on: This Self-love Business is a Bitch

By: Bully

Bully — Thu, 21 Jun 2007 14:22:32 +0000

I know that Exposure thing all too well. It causes anxiety, and emotion to just start bubbling upwards…yeah. Awful.

The exposure feeling though, it comes when we are letting ourselves open up, and the only way to let some things Out, is by doing so. Do it in a safe environment if you can–and don’t be afraid to delete or tear it up, if it hurts you. Getting used to things by degrees, it makes it FEEL safer, to be your Inner-you.

By: Patty

Patty — Thu, 21 Jun 2007 14:08:06 +0000

Sorry to hear all that you are going through. It too, shall pass. The heartbreak but it takes time. The father issue, I’m afraid will go on for a while as it has for me. I mean the alcoholic dad. Mine is still hear but we still have trouble communicating but that is just the way he is. He still hurts me to this day by his actions and words but then there are good times too.
I wish for you in the future a person who see’s all the wonderful qualities that I see from just your writings here. Hope you have a better week.

By: jenny

jenny — Thu, 21 Jun 2007 08:15:06 +0000

hugs. bug hugs.
i love you.
i am here.

By: Traveling Chica

Traveling Chica — Thu, 21 Jun 2007 01:31:28 +0000

I think we’re related… *hugs*

By: blue eyes

blue eyes — Wed, 20 Jun 2007 20:37:44 +0000

sizzle first, everyone else second… easy… :o)

By: sue

sue — Wed, 20 Jun 2007 19:08:26 +0000

I’m sorry you’re feeling this way, but understand it. So much of what you’re going through is growth – painful as it may be. You are such a warm, caring person that it is easy to draw blood. I feel for you, sweetie… {{{hugs}}} We love you just the way you are.

By: therapydoc

therapydoc — Wed, 20 Jun 2007 19:06:35 +0000

Did you ever stop and think, Are people really at the top of the evolutionary ladder? I mean, think about it. Birds. Would that not be a whole lot easier?

By: Jason - GorillaSushi

Jason - GorillaSushi — Wed, 20 Jun 2007 18:06:51 +0000

Wearing one’s heart on one’s sleeve can lead to afflictions such as dusty-heart (an excellent country-singer-name), moldy heart (ala Baracuda) and people asking “why is your watch pulsating and bloody – so gross”.

By: question girl

question girl — Wed, 20 Jun 2007 17:56:25 +0000

its why i love but hate when my friend steve calls… he ALWAYS calls when i am in the middle of some drama and i end up freaking out/crying to him too…. (ie, he called sat. after the e-mail i posted about today regarding being put in the middle of the 2 school districts)

(((HUGS))) again – another thing we have in common

By: audrey

audrey — Wed, 20 Jun 2007 17:18:29 +0000

Don’t change one bit sizzle.. it’s great to meet everyone with an open heart. Just be more of yourself if anything.. cause you’re pretty cool.. take care. Audrey.