Comments on: Saying Yes http://sizzlesays.wordpress.com/2007/11/29/saying-yes/ Don't Rain On My Parade Thu, 03 Dec 2009 08:02:03 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Idetrorce http://sizzlesays.wordpress.com/2007/11/29/saying-yes/#comment-23649 Idetrorce Sat, 15 Dec 2007 15:42:21 +0000 http://sizzlesays.wordpress.com/2007/11/29/saying-yes/#comment-23649 very interesting, but I don't agree with you Idetrorce very interesting, but I don’t agree with you
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]]> By: emmaenlighted http://sizzlesays.wordpress.com/2007/11/29/saying-yes/#comment-23101 emmaenlighted Sun, 02 Dec 2007 13:31:50 +0000 http://sizzlesays.wordpress.com/2007/11/29/saying-yes/#comment-23101 YES. :) I love that last paragraph. YES. :) I love that last paragraph.

]]> By: Jurgen Nation http://sizzlesays.wordpress.com/2007/11/29/saying-yes/#comment-23068 Jurgen Nation Sat, 01 Dec 2007 01:00:49 +0000 http://sizzlesays.wordpress.com/2007/11/29/saying-yes/#comment-23068 "Sometimes when you say yes to one, you’re saying no to another." I think I love you. This is fantastic. “Sometimes when you say yes to one, you’re saying no to another.”

I think I love you. This is fantastic.

]]> By: Aimee Greeblemonkey http://sizzlesays.wordpress.com/2007/11/29/saying-yes/#comment-23059 Aimee Greeblemonkey Fri, 30 Nov 2007 19:50:23 +0000 http://sizzlesays.wordpress.com/2007/11/29/saying-yes/#comment-23059 Two words: awesome post. Two words: awesome post.

]]> By: Filtering Life http://sizzlesays.wordpress.com/2007/11/29/saying-yes/#comment-23055 Filtering Life Fri, 30 Nov 2007 18:15:32 +0000 http://sizzlesays.wordpress.com/2007/11/29/saying-yes/#comment-23055 I love this one Siz, this is so dead on. The crazy thing is we are so identified with our hurts and dangerous cycles that we don't know how to live apart from them. We are "comfortable" in our dysfunctions and it is so difficult to break free into healthier patterns, abandoning ship to the old "me" and putting our foot down on the dip shits who love to trample all over us. I almost got another tattoo on my back that said "door mat"...but that was before my personal awakening a few years ago. So glad to see that Kelly dead and buried. You are totally on the right track and it is awesome that you do have "healthy" people around you. I love this one Siz, this is so dead on. The crazy thing is we are so identified with our hurts and dangerous cycles that we don’t know how to live apart from them. We are “comfortable” in our dysfunctions and it is so difficult to break free into healthier patterns, abandoning ship to the old “me” and putting our foot down on the dip shits who love to trample all over us. I almost got another tattoo on my back that said “door mat”…but that was before my personal awakening a few years ago. So glad to see that Kelly dead and buried. You are totally on the right track and it is awesome that you do have “healthy” people around you.

]]> By: Tracy Lynn http://sizzlesays.wordpress.com/2007/11/29/saying-yes/#comment-23032 Tracy Lynn Fri, 30 Nov 2007 06:25:22 +0000 http://sizzlesays.wordpress.com/2007/11/29/saying-yes/#comment-23032 I haven't known you long and don't know you well, but I have TOTAL FAITH in your ability to do this, and to take the kind of care with yourself that you deserve. In a good way. I haven’t known you long and don’t know you well, but I have TOTAL FAITH in your ability to do this, and to take the kind of care with yourself that you deserve. In a good way.

]]> By: Bully http://sizzlesays.wordpress.com/2007/11/29/saying-yes/#comment-23030 Bully Fri, 30 Nov 2007 05:01:54 +0000 http://sizzlesays.wordpress.com/2007/11/29/saying-yes/#comment-23030 I like the responses above--esp the first one, from Alissa. But this is what you said, that hit me hardest: 'How much do I have to not like myself to allow certain people...do xyz?' It's not that you don't like yourself.It's more like, you like them more. That, and inside we feel we have to do for them and excuse, if we love them. The really great thing is? You've come far enough to say--that is a load of craap! I'm done with that! ha! Good for you, Sizzle. You are a wonderful, beautiful person--and if you let your Fella? He will show you just hopw wonderful he thinks you are, be reflected back at you in his eyes. I like the responses above–esp the first one, from Alissa. But this is what you said, that hit me hardest:
‘How much do I have to not like myself to allow certain people…do xyz?’
It’s not that you don’t like yourself.It’s more like, you like them more. That, and inside we feel we have to do for them and excuse, if we love them.

The really great thing is? You’ve come far enough to say–that is a load of craap! I’m done with that! ha! Good for you, Sizzle. You are a wonderful, beautiful person–and if you let your Fella? He will show you just hopw wonderful he thinks you are, be reflected back at you in his eyes.

]]> By: claire http://sizzlesays.wordpress.com/2007/11/29/saying-yes/#comment-23027 claire Fri, 30 Nov 2007 03:59:06 +0000 http://sizzlesays.wordpress.com/2007/11/29/saying-yes/#comment-23027 I think you know I've struggled with this too. It can be hard and lonely to let go of people you hope will treat you better in the future. Mostly I've found the future is a long time in coming with those folks, so moving on is a good thing. I think you know I’ve struggled with this too. It can be hard and lonely to let go of people you hope will treat you better in the future. Mostly I’ve found the future is a long time in coming with those folks, so moving on is a good thing.

]]> By: Jen http://sizzlesays.wordpress.com/2007/11/29/saying-yes/#comment-23024 Jen Fri, 30 Nov 2007 02:44:44 +0000 http://sizzlesays.wordpress.com/2007/11/29/saying-yes/#comment-23024 That's a great yes to say. But I was kind of hoping the post was about the "yes, yes, YES!" kind. ; ) That’s a great yes to say. But I was kind of hoping the post was about the “yes, yes, YES!” kind. ; )

]]> By: maja http://sizzlesays.wordpress.com/2007/11/29/saying-yes/#comment-23023 maja Fri, 30 Nov 2007 00:41:31 +0000 http://sizzlesays.wordpress.com/2007/11/29/saying-yes/#comment-23023 Man.. new fella sounds awesome. But you are awesomer. Remember that :) Man.. new fella sounds awesome. But you are awesomer. Remember that :)

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