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1. 

   I’m so glad that you found someone who allows you to shine and that you are happy.

   Oddly enough, what I love about you is that I think you shine anyway. Whenever we hang out, you are radiant, warm and light up a room with kindness. I like that.

   Comment by Hilly — February 14, 2008 #
2. 

   I heart you because you are incredibly honest, introspective without being a hermit and an incredibly caring, hilarious, fabulous girl. (oops — that’s more than one thing)

   Comment by sandra — February 14, 2008 #
3. 

   So glad to read you’re so content, inside and out. Lots of good things flowing your way, I’m very happy for you! Keep up all the positive thinking! Have a lovely V-Day with your sweetie.

   Comment by Tracy — February 14, 2008 #
4. 

   I love you because you have such a big heart. You’ve been damaged and yes, you carry baggage, but you keep throwing yourself out there day after day and letting us into your world and letting it all hang out for us to see who you are.

   Have I told you how happy I am for you that you’ve found someone who is GOOD ENOUGH for you? yeah… I think he knows he’s got a lot on the line, too, knowing we’re all out here watching to make sure he doesn’t mess up. I think he’s terrific. Keep up the good work, “Fella”… she’s worth it.

   Comment by sue — February 14, 2008 #
5. 

   What I love about you? That you write stuff like this: Or maybe it’s that you can finally embrace all the parts of you- the good and the bad, the faults and the talents- and, in a way, fall in love with yourself through their eyes.

   (Will. Not. Tear. Up. At. Work. Will…. not…)

   Comment by justrun — February 14, 2008 #
6. 

   Oh, and I almost forgot, that beard (or whatever it’s called- I’m sure there’s a special name) is so Colorado-esque. :)

   Comment by justrun — February 14, 2008 #
7. 

   The thing I love about you is that you show that being vulnerable sometimes and looking at your own imperfections and sharing is what can truly make special and perfect!

   Comment by skyzi — February 14, 2008 #
8. 

   oh i was going to mention the facial hair too! does that take a lot of time to manage? we’re all a bit obsessed with that style of facial hair in my house :)

   i love that you post often so i always have good stuff to read :) (lame i know but i don’t know what else to write cos i don’t feel i know you well enough )

   Comment by Ys — February 14, 2008 #
9. 

   I love how you wove your topics together – quite fitting!

   I love your honesty … with yourself. I think it takes a lot to admit the things you have, to work on them and to constantly become a better person. We all have baggage, but it’s how we carry it and unload it that matters. And you most definitely shine!

   Comment by Nilsa S. — February 14, 2008 #
10. 

    Wowie wow wow! That is so sweet, Sizz. I am very happy that you get to enjoy this Valentine’s Day with someone so special. And I get how finding that person suddenly makes you want to celebrate. :)
    I love your great big heart and how totally in touch with yourself you are.

    Comment by diane — February 14, 2008 #
11. 

    That’s one of my most favoritest songs in the world! Glad you have such a fantastic sweety, and hope you have a wonderful Valentine’s Day!

    :)

    Comment by La — February 14, 2008 #
12. 

    Sounds like you’re having a very happy Valentines Day. There are two things I love about you (from what I know through your writing), one of which seems at odds with your post. I love your spunkiness and your independence. Both qualities I wish I had more of, and totally respect in others.

    Hope you’re having a great day!

    Comment by Jessie — February 14, 2008 #
13. 

    I really like your honesty, and perspective on things :)

    Comment by Scotty — February 14, 2008 #
14. 

    I love you for taking this risk too, and I love the Fella for knowing a treasure when he finds one.

    Happy Heart Day Friend!

    xxxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

    Comment by alissa — February 14, 2008 #
15. 

    Happy Valentine’s Day Siz & Fella! Sounds like a keeper…I’m talkin’ to Fella there. ;)

    Comment by balou — February 14, 2008 #
16. 

    I’m just delighted that you’ve found each other.

    Comment by teebopop — February 14, 2008 #
17. 

    I just think you’re all sorts of great, and I am so happy that you found someone who brings out all the wonderful qualities in you. Happy VD!

    Comment by brookem — February 14, 2008 #
18. 

    what a great pic – it shows what a great and loving couple you are together… finding someone that loves you for good AND bad is such a wonderful thing, i wouldn’t have it any other way… :o)

    i love your sense of humor and honesty – it’s so refreshing these days… :o)

    have a great valentine’s day!

    Comment by jodi — February 14, 2008 #
19. 

    Good title. *hugs*
    Besides your smile, which I think God gave to us humankind to warm our weary way, your wonderful attribute is your vulnerability. I think that you are finding your strength lying amidst that which you didn’t think was any good, and in that surprise is my happiness. You are growing more beautiful, every day.

    Comment by Bully — February 14, 2008 #
20. 

    I love your honest writing and wit!

    Comment by Diane Mandy — February 14, 2008 #
21. 

    Such a beautiful post. Funnily enough, that’s the exact same song I’ve been listening to loop all day. I love that you have balls enough to confront someone when you think he’s being passive-aggressive. I do that myself. (I’m not passive-aggressive. I’m just aggressive, period.) Like I said, I think you’re all sorts of awesome. Happy Valentine’s!

    Comment by The Lisa Show — February 14, 2008 #
22. 

    I have been gone for too damn long – I missed this gorgeous development.

    This made me tear up. Hells yeah, Sizzle! :)

    Comment by kris — February 14, 2008 #
23. 

    I love that you are always willing to share your mistakes as well as your triumphs. You are a good friend who is always there when someone needs you. Plus you are beautiful! I told you before that you look a lot like my daughter except she has lighter hair, so you know I must mean it when I say you are beautiful because my kids are the most beautiful people I have ever met.

    Reading your post made me so happy! I love that you found someone who allows you to be yourself and be loved and happy. Hooray!

    Comment by tori — February 14, 2008 #
24. 

    I love how you always find the most interesting quotes. I love that you share some really interesting posts in Reader as well — especially the stuff on body image.

    Comment by Dagny — February 14, 2008 #
25. 

    What an awesome post. I love that you are so honest in all ways. And I love that you’ve found someone to love who helps you to see all the wonderful things about you.

    Comment by suze — February 14, 2008 #
26. 

    What a great post. I’m going to send the link to a friend who will appreciate what you’ve written.

    What I love about you is your SMILE. Among other things, of course, but that was the first thing that came to mind.

    Comment by Alison — February 14, 2008 #
27. 

    I’m so glad that you have found someone you can love in that way, so that your own love for yourself is intertwined. That is the best and truest kind.

    Comment by Jess — February 14, 2008 #
28. 

    Awwww!!! Gah- can I please stop with the tears!

    I love that you write about the things that show that you are (we all are) human – good/bad, mistakes/perfection, love/hate – it’s all there.

    Happy Valentine’s Day!

    Comment by Melissa — February 14, 2008 #
29. 

    I hate the way you make me feel about my neurosis. You should just drop dead because nobody loves you.

    Oh shit…today isn’t opposite day…nevermind! Uhhhh…I, like, mean the opposite of course!

    Hope you and the fella have a great romantic evening.

    Comment by Tobiwan — February 14, 2008 #
30. 

    I love the way you’re able to go with the flow and not let stupid people get you down. Down with the stupid people!! ;-)

    Comment by LA Blogger Gal — February 14, 2008 #
31. 

    I love this.

    And I agree with you 101% on the way you describe baggage and love. I’ve come to a point where meeting someone without baggage, is baggage! So it’s become a task of finding someone whose baggage isn’t too heavy to help shoulder, and vice versa. xoxo

    Comment by Pants — February 14, 2008 #
32. 

    That was beautifully done! Congrats on everything you have to celebrate on this day of lovin’.

    Now, in your honor, I am going to go eat cheese. Grilled cheese sounds nice, but alas, I cannot make grilled cheese at work. Well, not without getting fired. Enjoy your day!!!

    Comment by Michael C — February 14, 2008 #
33. 

    I love your honest, caring and giving self.

    and most of all, I love that you are in love with a guy worth loving!

    Comment by gorillabuns — February 14, 2008 #
34. 

    This is my first time here and I have to say that even if the entire post sucked (which it *didn’t*), I’d keep coming back for this line:

    “I realize that my baggage, while mismatched and definitely exceeding carry on status, is not the end of the world.”

    Perfect. Happy Valentine’s Day (to you and your fella!)

    Comment by nicoleantoinette — February 14, 2008 #
35. 

    Really great post Sizzle- thoughtful, funny, and touching…and that’s what I love about you!

    Comment by punchlinewalking — February 14, 2008 #
36. 

    Oh, and I love that you always comment on my blog…it makes me feel happy to know that you’re reading!

    Comment by punchlinewalking — February 14, 2008 #
37. 

    “We are two imperfect people loving each other imperfectly but with all the gusto we can muster. And that? That just what I’ve always wanted.”

    Me too. I’m so happy we’ve both found it.

    I love how thoughtful and thought-provoking your posts are. In the few years I’ve been reading, you’ve really grown and blossomed. It’s been lovely to witness your progression toward fulfillment.

    Comment by SJ — February 14, 2008 #
38. 

    Awwwww….

    I am so happy you took that risk too.

    Risks are so worth it, especially when they lead to love “_

    Comment by Angella — February 14, 2008 #
39. 

    I love that you are honest and truthful about yourself. You aren’t afraid to explore both the good and bad. You are fun and thoughtful and! – a great singer.

    Comment by Aimee Greeblemonkey — February 14, 2008 #
40. 

    I’m so glad you opened yourself up to the vulnerability of love…when it’s right, it’s so worth it. Go you!

    Comment by Foo — February 14, 2008 #
41. 

    I love you because you’re so hot. There’s actually a lot of other things to love, but this is my favorite :)

    Comment by Long Story Longer — February 14, 2008 #
42. 

    I love this post about you and the fella :)
    And I’m going to do better than one thing I love about Sizzle: your wit, your humour, your unwavering honesty, your strength and your fearlessness to be open and honest both with you and us.
    Happy V Day Sizzle!!

    Comment by Josie — February 14, 2008 #
43. 

    Her honesty and sincerity are just a couple of reasons why the world loves the Sizzle.

    And I don’t personally know The Fella, but beyond what you tell us, the world loves him for his ability to grow amazingly awesome facial hair.

    Comment by jonb — February 14, 2008 #
44. 

    I love that you attack life with a sense of humor and a good attitude! I aspire to be more like you ;)

    Comment by kilax — February 14, 2008 #
45. 

    “I love him for many reasons both big and small and nestled among those is how he makes me feel about me. We are two imperfect people loving each other imperfectly but with all the gusto we can muster. And that? That just what I’ve always wanted.”

    This may be the nerdiest thing to say in the world, but f*** it; Philip K. Dick writes books about beautifully imperfect people that are masked under the illusion of science fiction. Your loving comment about your new beau reminded me of those books I grew up on and loved. It may be kinda dorky for me to admit, but it still resounds the same; your writing reminded me of someone else’s beautiful writing. It’s no wonder you have so many comments!

    I am so sorry to have missed so much while not reading your weblog, which I regret because you have found what you wanted, and I missed it! Oh well, I am catching up now and happy to find you so happy. You’re a sweet writer, and what you represent makes me hopeful.

    P.S. If you are interested in Philip’s writing about imperfect perfect people, try reading “Flow My Tears, The Policeman Said”, or an old favorite, “Confessions of a Crap Artist”. Just a suggestion.

    Comment by Anthony S. — February 15, 2008 #
46. 

    I’m so late – it’s Friday here already so Happy Belated V-Day Sizzle!
    What I admire about you the most is that, despite everything, you took a leap of faith. I want to be just like you when I grow up ;o)
    Oh and I love that red lipstick, but you already knew that!

    Comment by Penelope — February 15, 2008 #
47. 

    That was sweet! I like you because I find that I can relate to your writings, which means I think you kick ass!
    AND… I just want to say … “OH, you looks so beautifully happy with your sweetie!” Aww, it feels good to be in love…

    Comment by gibsondog — February 15, 2008 #
48. 

    Talk about late to the party . . .

    I admire (and love) how UNVARNISHED you are. Some have said honest — but that’s only part of it. There’s no gloss, no fluff. It’s not like being real. I’m sick of posers claiming to be real. You are true. Authentic. Unvarnished. And we, your readers, enjoy the splendor that is sizzle.

    Mayberry Magpie

    Comment by Mayberry Magpie — February 15, 2008 #
49. 

    Excellent post on a day celebrating love. :) HUGS!

    Comment by G-man — February 15, 2008 #
50. 

    I love you because you give me hope. And because you linked me to How To Look Good Naked.

    Comment by Kristin — February 15, 2008 #
51. 

    This is so sweet! Enjoy that fella, you deserve him and all the joy he brings you!

    What I like most about you (and given, I don’t know you in person, only through the blog, so I’m sure there’s a lot more to like and love) is your kindness toward others, your altruistically giving nature. You rock Sizz!

    Comment by Jen — February 15, 2008 #
52. 

    So great!

    Comment by maja — February 16, 2008 #
53. 

    Awwww, that’s so sweet and I’m so glad you found each other:) As far baggage, I think everyone carries some around; it just comes in different sizes and colors.

    Comment by Becky — February 18, 2008 #

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