Comments on: Spasm

By: Gina

Gina — Fri, 14 Nov 2008 21:45:31 +0000

I’m way late on responding to this mainly because I’ve been doing the woe-is-me thing lately as well and all I have to say is people don’t have to like it. If it’s what you need to do to eventually get yourself correct then you need to do that. I feel the same way as you, I’m dealing with an extremely difficult end to a relationship and I can tell my friends don’t really want to hear it anymore. So what are you supposed to do? Bottle it up? Hell no. Use whatever outlet (even if its your blog) to get out your feelings. Those who don’t like it will move on and come back when they find something more joyful to comment on. This is YOU time, because from the sounds of it there’s not very much of that in your life lately. Forget everyone else and get it all out girl! :o)

By: Ashley

Ashley — Fri, 14 Nov 2008 03:05:44 +0000

I hope you are feeling better, stress really does play out in crazy ways, a coworker of mine has TMJ and is losing bone in her jaw because of stress apparently. I’m glad you took some time to give yourself some much needed TLC :)

And never apologize for airing your frustrations, this is your space and obviously from the large amount of supporters above me, you aren’t at a lack of people who love you :)

Hopefully the interviews went well!

By: Christina

Christina — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 15:35:34 +0000

Sorry for my lack of comments, things have been busy here but I am sending you good thoughts and hugs.

I am glad that the massage worked. I have been meaning to get one but right now it is the end of my “to-do” list.

Fingers crossed for the interviews….

By: Ruby

Ruby — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 15:30:03 +0000

Hang in there honey, you’re not boring anyone or driving people away….you’re super swamped and have a valid reason to vent. I’m rooting for you!

By: Julianne

Julianne — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 13:55:53 +0000

The reason I haven’t commented isn’t because I’m silently judging you (I’m not) but because I sensed you needed silent support not cheerleaders. I’m only writing now because I am choosing to believe that the majority of your readers are more like me, and I don’t want you to internalize and create negativity where there is none.

A few things:
1. Breathe. It is really the most important thing you do. Remember to do it ofter, and take a few deep breaths every now and then.

2. Drink fluids until you float. If you think you might be coming down with some kind of bug, you can help your body by flushing your system with fluids. It does work best if at least some of the fluids are caffeine and alcohol free. I’m just saying.

3. Keep getting massages. It is so important to take time for personal care, and sometimes women don’t because they feel guilty for spending the money or taking the time. Massage therapy helps with stress relief and sleeping and back pain.

Go Sizzle Go! You can do it! You’re in the home stretch!

By: gorillabuns

gorillabuns — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 12:55:04 +0000

Sending positive thoughts your way for the perfect candidate to walk in your doors this week.

By: kilax

kilax — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 11:08:56 +0000

Don’t be guilty about the woe-is-me posts! If people have a problem with them… well… eff them ;)

Did any of the interviews go well?

By: Whit

Whit — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 07:14:55 +0000

A massage? What’s that? Aren’t my shoulders supposed to be knotted?

By: Angella

Angella — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 05:44:22 +0000

Crossing my fingers that you find a good candidate!

And glad that you are the road to “better”.

By: maja

maja — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 04:44:27 +0000

You will get through this xox