Sign me up for that, please.

November 10, 2009 at 6:50 am | In living out loud, love, processing | 21 Comments

Who wouldn’t want to get an email that said this?

“You are an incredibly smart and strong woman. You are making amazing strides in putting yourself first…and more and more remembering and KNOWING that you are worthy of a man who will communicate WELL, make you laugh, is smart as shit and mostly ADORE you for who you are, quirks and all…even when you make mistakes. And the right ONE will NOT make you feel SMALL…but because of how they love you, will make you feel like you are POWERFUL in your perfect imperfection. And they will always, even when they fuck up, come back to what matters most…you and he and a loving trusting partnership full of integrity.”

It’s easy to settle for less when you feel like less. So I keep on working at feeling like more.

Thanks Jenny Two Times for the reminder.

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You’ll get there- I predict a very happy future for you.

Comment by Tim — November 10, 2009 #
I just want to say that I never believed any of that, until Mark. I know it’s true now. I KNOW it’s true.

It will happen to you. I KNOW that, too.

(I think you just inspired a post)

Comment by Piper of Love — November 10, 2009 #
I hope you have that email printed and posted by your desk at work, on your mirror at home and on the dashboard of your car. GREAT reminder!!!

Comment by SoMi's Nilsa — November 10, 2009 #
Whoa! I need an email like that.

Comment by hotpinksox — November 10, 2009 #
So, so true. Don’t settle for anything less.

Comment by Angella — November 10, 2009 #
Now that’s a great email! And a wonderful friend! You’re getting there Sizz, you’re getting there :)

Comment by Jen — November 10, 2009 #
Love it. And her. And you. I need to write something similar to myself and hang it on my bathroom mirror. Or maybe stamp it on my forehead.

Comment by Kerri Anne — November 10, 2009 #
Right on, Jenny Two Times!

Comment by simpleink — November 10, 2009 #
your “perfect imperfection” – i love that!

Comment by angela — November 10, 2009 #
100x
xo
j

Comment by jenny 2 times — November 10, 2009 #
That’s an awesome reminder for you. Now go print it and stick it on your forehead.

:P

Comment by Ashleigh — November 10, 2009 #
Yeay for more! You are amazing and you deserve an amazing guy who worships you.

Comment by Mel Heth — November 10, 2009 #
Can you please listen to her? Because EVERYTHING she said is 100% true.

Comment by Marie — November 10, 2009 #
um, i hope you don’t mind, but i’m going to go ahead and replace zeghsy with sizzle in all appropriate places of that email. i need that kick in the pants too.

Comment by zeghsy — November 10, 2009 #
This was an awesome email and whoever sent it to u deserves an applause coz that’s exactly what every womaN should always have in
mind. No. Actually, in the bathroom mirror so everytime she sees herself she can read that out loud.

Comment by Noe — November 10, 2009 #
I’ve gotten a few of those emails recently myself. They’re great. And I’m constantly being reminded that awesome people attract awesome. So yay to that. :) (psssst–you are awesome!)

Comment by diane — November 10, 2009 #
I knew I liked that Jenny Two Times.

Comment by Aimee — November 10, 2009 #
You are more. I’m pretty picky about my secret lovers, you know. I don’t settle for just anyone. ;)

Comment by Iron Fist — November 10, 2009 #
*smooches both you and Jenny TwoTimes for that*

Yes. YES. That, right there.

It is one of the few things that lasts. When you really and truly feel what that is like, it’s a sort of milk crate to stand on, to better see the world. The sex can change, the attractiveness, the jobs(or houses or cars), the obstacles can pop up and be severe– but the sensation of really being safe and surrounded by someone is a constant. You want the one real constant in life to be Love. (Of course, having the great friends you do, you already know what that feels like, right?)

Comment by Bully — November 11, 2009 #
smart lady. i like her.

Comment by sue — November 11, 2009 #
She’s so smart. :) So are you.

Comment by Long Story Longer — November 15, 2009 #