60% More Heart
June 28, 2010 at 6:32 am | Posted in love, sentimentality, why I love him | 29 Comments
I woke up remembering someone in my dream telling me, “Even on his worst day, he has 60% more heart than most men.” That couldn’t be more true. Unless, it was 75%. Because of the many things I adore about Mr. Darcy, I have to rank his big heart at the top.
Here’s a smattering:
his big, easy laugh, the way his eyes squint up when he smiles, how sweet he is to Dot & Dash calling them nicknames and letting them knead his belly as we sit on the couch, his willingness to push through hard stuff, his unflinching generosity, the way he looks at me like I am the only girl in the room, his steadiness, his sharp wit, his whip smart intelligence, his enjoyment of my family, his closeness to his family, his playfulness, his ability to sleep and sleep some more, his depth, his incredible artistic talent, how he shows up for me repeatedly, how I never have to ask him to do stuff like help around the apartment because he just does it, his protective vigilance of my heart.
In a nutshell, he’s excels at loving me. I hope he feels I do the same for him.
I could imagine my life without him. But the thing is, I don’t want to.
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I just want to awwwwww all over the place! You got yourself a great man there. Hang tight!
Comment by bubblewench— June 28, 2010 #
It’s mushy and wonderful. xo
Comment by Carrisa— June 28, 2010 #
Ok, third time I’ve gotten teary-eyed this morning. And it’s only morning!!
Comment by Melissa— June 28, 2010 #
I am so happy you found someone wonderful!
Comment by rosie— June 28, 2010 #
Your happy is making ME happy. :)
Comment by Angella— June 28, 2010 #
I love seeing you so happy!!!
and we all can tell you TOTALLY love him by the little sparkles we see in your eyes :)
Comment by noe— June 28, 2010 #
Awwww… swoon.
Comment by san— June 28, 2010 #
yes. keep saying yes.
xo.
Comment by jenny 2 times— June 28, 2010 #
Okay, this: “I could imagine my life without him. But the thing is, I don’t want to.” I love that. It’s so important. To me, that’s when you know something could be really real. Because it shows you aren’t so starry eyed that you aren’t being realistic. You’re choosing everything you guys have. And you keep choosing it, every day. Love it. Love you guys together. Love all the happiness. Love the love.
Comment by Booyah— June 28, 2010 #
:) Very nice. I think you must do the same for him, given the smile on his face too.
Comment by Karla— June 28, 2010 #
Awww schmooop!!! You totally deserve it!
Comment by Marie— June 28, 2010 #
You definitely deserve this.
And I really like the couch. A lot.
Comment by Kim— June 28, 2010 #
He does have a great smile :)
I just love this. So sweet, so practical, so day-to-day love. You guys need to come here and sprinkle your fairy dust on me. xo
Comment by LongStoryLonger— June 28, 2010 #
Soooo happy for you!!! You guys are just adorable together. Such a beautiful couple!
Comment by Stevie— June 28, 2010 #
Oh Mr. Darcy…what a package that man is! :)
Comment by Mel Heth— June 28, 2010 #
So so so very happy for you.
Comment by Hotpinksox— June 28, 2010 #
If there was a “Like” button for the two of you together I would totally press it.
Comment by Iron Fist— June 28, 2010 #
And, now I am teary eyed. So very sweet. I’m glad you have him.
Comment by Rhi— June 28, 2010 #
I LOVE this! I’m so happy for you both!
Comment by radioactive tori— June 29, 2010 #
When I was on the dating scene, nothing would annoy me more than guys with wandering eyes. It’s like they think they’re being sly or something when it’s so blatantly obvious. As if I’d really hang around to be treated that way on more than one date. That said, when you find a guy who only has eyes for you … lucky girl … he’s a keeper!
Comment by Nilsa @ SoMi Speaks— June 29, 2010 #
((Hugs)) This makes me very happy, for you. Take it in and treasure that.:-)
Comment by Bully— June 29, 2010 #
“His protective vigilance of my heart.”
Now there’s a rare man! So happy for you.
Comment by Mayberry Magpie— June 29, 2010 #
Is it wrong of me to say, “it’s about time!”? Sounds like he’s The One, Sizzle. Hang on, and just keep loving him the way he loves you. :)
Comment by jeopardygirl— June 29, 2010 #
You crazy kids!
Just remember, love can only get you so far… for the rest, you’ll need a Kate from Cupcake Royale!!
Comment by Dave2— June 29, 2010 #
Cute photo of you two. Awesome
Comment by martymankins— June 30, 2010 #
Then don’t imagine your life without him. No reason you should. Be happy!
Comment by kapgar— June 30, 2010 #
lovely looking guy and smile
Comment by Babycakes— July 1, 2010 #
Aww. You just described my husband as well. We are the lucky ones, aren’t we?
Comment by Krissie— July 1, 2010 #
I almost feel in love with him too! Loved this post :) and soooo happy for you!
Comment by PolĂn— July 25, 2010 #